As children transition into adulthood, there are certain questions that parents should refrain from asking, experts suggest. These intrusive queries can make grown-up kids feel uncomfortable and put them in awkward situations.
Malaika Arora asked her adult son Arhaan an inappropriate question on a vodcast. Sparking a discussion on questions parents shouldn’t ask their adult children.
While their playful banter highlights their close bond, it raises the question of appropriate topics for parents and adult children. Parents should avoid prying into their adult children’s personal lives, including questions about dating or finances.
- Quizzing an adult child about their sexual experiences or virginity is a strict no-no. Such personal questions can deeply offend the child’s sensibilities.
- It is normal for adults to seek privacy by locking their rooms. Parents should be understanding and avoid questioning this need for personal space.
- Many parents are eager to have grandchildren, but constantly asking when the child plans to have a baby can put undue pressure.
- After becoming independent, adults should have the freedom to spend their money as per their personal needs and interests, without having to explain it to parents.
Maintaining a respectful and open relationship is key. Parents must understand that their grown-up children are now independent individuals who deserve privacy and autonomy in their lives.
